Will Texting Your Ex Boyfriend Help You Win Him Back?

Text messaging has become such an important and powerful tool in communication that people now use it in every way possible. After all, a few button pushes are all that is needed to maximize its power and it can be used to exchange mundane stories or convey emotions in no time. It may even make you believe that texting your ex boyfriend can help you win him back. Most relationship experts will disagree with you on that, though.

However, although it is true that you should not text your ex boyfriend immediately after a breakup, completely ignoring him will not help you, either. So, before you lose hope, believe that there is a way around the rule imposed by these relationship gurus.

Texting your ex boyfriend after a breakup isn't completely bad. It's just a matter of how or what you send to him. Simply put, if you send him the wrong messages, he may shut the door on you and your chances of winning him back.

Generic texts like "How are you?" or "What's up?", which are also called "nothing text messages", won't increase your chances of getting your ex-boyfriend back, for example. They're bland and boring and lack essence, so steer clear of them.

Instead, use the good points of texting to your advantage. Since text messages aren't obtrusive, in general, your ex boyfriend will not feel cornered whenever you send him one. Text messages are also very personal and don't require immediate responses the way that calls do, so you and your ex have time to think before typing. This, in turn, provides an avenue for both of you to convey your feelings properly. Thoughts expressed through text are much clearer, too, allowing both of you to rebuild your failed relationship at a steady pace.

Besides, women tend to fail at talking to their ex boyfriends and find it easier to just text. Plus, it's agonizing to wait for a phone call from an ex, and texting your ex boyfriend becomes a better option because, even if he doesn't reply, chances are he will read your message. He may ignore phone calls, but he cannot ignore a text message that lands in his inbox.

Yes, as long as you are cautious when texting your ex boyfriend, you can reconnect with him and even build a future with him through it. You just have to find the right approach to get him to where you want him to be.

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