How to Get a Girlfriend Back When You Feel Like You Have Changed

You feel like you had a much needed wake up call when your girlfriend let you know that she was not interested in dating you anymore and that led you to make some much needed changes in your life. You realize that she is the most important person in your life and that you had to do whatever you could to try and make yourself become a better man for her. The problem is, you thought that this was all that you had to do to be able to win her back. Unfortunately, it does not seem like that is the case, because you are having a hard time making her feel like she should give you a second chance. Is there any hope that you can get your ex girlfriend back now that you have made those much needed changes in your life?

Maybe.

What you have to realize is that sometimes we can make changes when it is too late to save one relationship. That's not always the way that it works out, but sometimes it is. You might feel like you should be given a second chance, but that does not mean that she is going to feel that way. She might feel like you should have made those changes when you and her were still together and that might make her feel as though it would be pointless to get back together. You kind of have to accept that this is a possibility, even if you wish that was not the case.

On the other hand, one of the reasons why she might not be ready to give you a second chance is because she is not sure that you have really changed at all. Plenty of men have gone back to their ex girlfriends claiming that they are a changed man, only to quickly reveal that they never made much of any change at all and women are used to that and they know that this happens. So, she might be really skeptical to the idea that you have made changes and that things are not going to be exactly like they were before.

If that is the case, then all you really can do to convince her is to show her that you are for real and that may take some time. You may not be able to win her back tomorrow or the next day or even the next week. You may have to be patient and just allow her to see with time that you are for real and that you are not going to go back to whatever old behaviors that you had that led to her wanting to break up with you in the first place.

Make Her Want to See What You Have Become -

If you do really want to get back with your ex girlfriend and you know for sure that whatever changes you have made are real and are permanent, then you really have to work on enticing her to want to see what you have become. You can do this by leveraging the power of curiosity and mystery so that she wants to know what you are up to and sees that you are not exactly the same guy that she used to date. If you can do this effectively, you may just find that she wants to get to know the new you and that she is attracted to the new you as well.