Are you getting dumped by every boyfriend you've ever had? Do you even know why?
There are certain types of women that are men magnets, and others that get trampled on and dumped by their latest boyfriend. What type of woman are you?
Look at the kind of woman that guys surround. Sure, she's pretty, but not that much prettier than you. Yet, she has every man mesmerized!
This woman exudes confidence, playfulness, a great personality, and friendliness. She gets along well with everyone, no matter if it's men or women. She's in charge of her man but doesn't show jealousy. She's funny but smart. She's down to earth but sexy. She dresses for men. She commands respect but isn't high maintenance. She's the best thing that ever happened to mankind! Guys would do anything for her.
What about you? Why can't you hold onto a guy? Here's the difference between you and her. You get angry at your guy even when he talks to a woman. You don't like to be in the presence of pretty women. You feel insecure around them. You aren't outgoing. You don't do playful things with your guy (anymore). You aren't flirtatious. You don't command respect because you're insecure. You've let your appearance go.
If you aren't the kind of woman that can take charge of the relationship and show value to your man, he won't respect you. Showing weakness is a sure way to be dumped and replaced.
Who initiated the relationship? If you did, chances are your ex didn't feel that attached to you. He didn't have to work for your attention, you gave it freely because you are the one that started the relationship. He has nothing to lose by ending it since he didn't have to invest time and effort to pursue you. By doing that, you didn't create any value in his mind because no work was involved on his part.
So how do you correct things and get your man back, or at least stop getting dumped by every guy you have a relationship with?
You almost have to reinvent yourself.
First change your look to show more confidence and style. Be fashionable and sexy. If you need a little toning up, go to a gym and hit the weights and treadmill. You can either work on finding a way to have more confidence in yourself, or take a group class that will help you in that area. Role play with likeminded people. It will really boost your confidence when you can act and speak in front of others.
Don't ever let any man walk all over you. Be strong and be honest. Speak your peace and stand tall. People respect the person that respects themself.
You have to learn to let loose too. Enjoy the company of men and women. Don't be so rigid. Be the fun person that others want to be around. You will get noticed. Men will see a quality woman standing right in front of them!
You will stop getting dumped when you learn to love yourself and truly enjoy everyone else too.
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