My girlfriend just dumped me. So what is my next step?
If your girlfriend dumps you, you are probably very keen to get back together with her. However, it is important to understand that getting a girlfriend back takes time.
If the break up just happens yesterday, you are probably not going to get back together with her tomorrow. Therefore, patience is the key. It is not easy but it is necessary.
Your next step is to cut off contact with her. This step is necessary because you will need some time to calm down and recover from your emotional wounds. Your girlfriend will need this time to calm down too.
Should I Remain As Friends With Her?
This is a very common question. And there is no right or wrong answer. The answer to this question depends on your intention.
If you have no more feelings for her, it is certainly alright to remain as friends with her. Having one more friend is always a good thing.
Don't Lie To Yourself! You Still Have Feelings For Her!
But you know what? The fact that you are asking this question already reveals your intention. It is pretty obvious that you want to get back together with your girlfriend.
If you are serious about getting back together with her, then the answer is no. No, you should never remain as friends with her unless you are satisfied with just being a normal friend.
Sometimes, a guy may try to lie to himself saying that he just want to be friends. However, this is almost impossible. You know yourself best. Even if you manage to lie to yourself, your ex girlfriend will be able to see through your intention.
You must never forget the fact that women are a lot more sensitive than men. Therefore, it is really hard to conceal your intention from your ex girlfriend.
The Danger of The Friend Zone
Alright, let's assume that you have somehow managed to conceal your intention from your ex girlfriend. So you are now friends with your ex girlfriend.
So what is going to happen next? Well, before you know what is happening, you are already falling into the friend zone. The friend zone is a relationship killer, especially for guys.
Once you get into a woman's friend zone, it is very hard for you to escape from it. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, don't stay as friends with her.
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