How to Send Effective Texts to Get Your Ex Back

There are numerous ways of getting back together with your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend. But is sending a text message enough to really get them back? This question is answerable by both a yes and a no. It greatly depends on the on how you go about sending it and the gravity of your break up. Keeping in mind how and why the relationship ended is a good basis on the effectiveness of merely texting your ex back. Of course it's always better to go about this matter face to face but here are some of the reasons why even with just a text, you can get back together.

Texting your ex - continues communication between exes

After the break up you and your ex still have certain feelings and connection with each other. Text messages enable both parties to spend some time apart but still continue to update one another with each other's lives. Sending proper text messages to get your ex back will spare him or her time to think of what their next move will be without the pressure of looking at one another and forcing a decision right away.

Texting your ex - prevents emotions to get out of hand

Often times when you talk to your ex face to face, the conversation gets too heated up that neither one of you gets answers that you want. This is most commonly seen in recent break ups. One tries to patch things up while the other wants otherwise. You let your emotions in the way, say things to each other that you don't really mean; and the next thing you know is that you have no chance at all to get him or her back. Sending a simple and composed text message prevent all of these from happening.

Texting your ex - lets you say how you really feel

Intense face to face conversations between you and your ex may do more harm than good as all there is, is yelling and nobody listening. A text message can be beneficial and effective in this kind of situation because it gives you the chance to collect your thoughts and say how you really feel without being interrupted. All the unnecessary and potentially hurtful words you banter back and forth will be gone and the only message that will remain is your true feelings of how you want him or her back in your life. This benefits you as well as your ex because you avoid adding more injury to the situation.